I remember being so tired of looking for Mr. Right. After several disappointments, I told God I was done and that I was waiting for Him to show me. And I meant it. Not long after that, I saw Michael walking in at church and I knew. I felt something that only the Holy Spirit can allow you to feel. I told my mom I was going to marry him before I had even talked to him.
Something I learned through waiting and in the first few years of marriage was that I was putting my focus into feeling complete through the man I would and did marry. After a lot of disappointments (Michael has had his share of disappointments in me too), I began seeking answers. I was angry and asked myself what the point was in marriage if there are so many let downs.
It was when I started focusing on Him to feel complete and not Michael that I was able to start loving him the way God intended. I no longer felt a longing for completeness. Our marriage slowly started to be more about serving the other person. People disappoint, even our spouses. Looking for wholeness in them is like looking for light in a pitch dark room.
Find your completeness in the one who died for you many years ago and longs to be the one who makes you feel whole.
Share in the comments how you met your hubby? I'd love to hear!